Let me tell you about my feelings about raising a tabby cat (3).

Let me tell you about my feelings about raising a tabby cat (3).

As a child, I naturally hope that my parents are open-minded and understand me. Some parents think that they are very good to their children and provide everything for them, but the children just don’t follow their own ideas. This is a kind of mental knot that is easy to appear whether you are raising a pet or raising a child in the future. I don’t use the word “wrong” but “mental knot” because most of this kind of sacrifice is indeed an objective fact.

But it is inevitably unfair to make this sacrifice a condition that the recipient must obey your will. People who start with this idea will of course feel more unbalanced the more they sacrifice (it’s okay if they receive positive feedback, but if they don’t or even receive negative feedback, then the contradictions and hatred are enough to destroy all existing relationships). You think that you have provided everything, so you should control everything, but you will never provide the opportunity for equal dialogue. Because in your consciousness, this does not exist, and it has never existed.

So the biggest benefit of raising a cat is that you can look into your heart in advance. Are you ready to be a father or a mother? The appropriate and appropriate point is that cats are extremely independent and have no moral constraints. It doesn’t think that if you treat it well, it must repay you, and so on. This also makes many people love and hate it. If the real society is really like the old saying “raising children is to prevent old age”, then where can we talk about the greatness of parents’ love for their children? So I prefer to regard the relationship between parents and children as the most intimate destiny of human beings, helping each other and sharing weal and woe, rather than an exchange of equivalence or expectation of equivalence. The story of underage and sunset should never be so naked and cruel.

Let’s stop here for now. Attached

are some strange sleeping positions↓

Note: Miao is my son, whose original name is Bai Qi, but he seems to prefer the name of idiot, after all, it sounds like “eating for free”. Four and a half months will soon be May, weighing 2.66kg, high IQ, high EQ, cheerful personality, and the most important thing is that he is not picky about food and can accept any taste, which is great. Some people say that local cats are so and so, what’s wrong with local cats, I think local cats are good, they are not hypocritical at all, how great! In order to prevent people from saying that I abuse cats, I will briefly explain the issue of tooth loss. The upper and lower canine teeth of cats will begin to fall off around May (milk teeth), and then strong and more lethal permanent teeth will grow. This is a natural process. During this period, the cat will feel a little uncomfortable, biting people, and anorexia are all normal. It is best to feed more soft food and give more company.

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Hahaha, there are actually quite a few people reading this, so I will add some content.

This was when it first came, it was almost 2 months old, a small ball. On the first day, it hid in the closet all night without making a sound. The next morning, it poked its head out again and greeted me tentatively. Because it had been hiding all night without eating or drinking, and had not seen going to the toilet, I was wondering why it was not in a hurry at all. But 1 minute later, I wished I hadn’t had this idea. This kid suddenly sat on the quilt with his back to me and didn’t move. After a few seconds, I felt my calves were a little hot, and I looked at the kid’s sitting posture again. “I think it’s bad, maybe I peed on the quilt”, and sure enough, the smell was strong. I was surprised that this kitten smelled so pungent.