Dogs are of course loyal to people, even absolutely loyal.
But the kind of loyalty to the “leader”, that is, the kind of loyalty of complete obedience and dependence, is the instinct of dogs.
But in modern society, many people do not want this kind of “loyalty”, but the “loyalty” of a subject. That is to say, they want dogs to be subordinates of their masters. So often, many people will immediately fall into a rage once a dog bared its teeth at them! “I provide you with food and shelter. How dare you treat me like this, repaying kindness with enmity!” So they beat the dog violently. Others
hope to get some kind of “loyalty” from a “family member”, that is, the kind of dog that will come to comfort them when they are sad, and they will love each other as a family. Similarly, once a dog bared its teeth at them, they will immediately fall into a rage! “White-eyed wolf! You are an ungrateful dog!” Similar words came. Then they beat the dog violently, and after the beating, they want the dog to come and go at will.
I can only say that your requirements are too difficult for dogs. These things are completely your projection of your own desires onto the “dog”, hoping that it will satisfy these desires. But it can’t even understand the concepts of “subordinate” and “family”. How do you expect it to provide such loyalty?
For dogs, there is only one kind of loyalty, which is “loyalty” to the leader. You are the leader and I obey all your orders and try my best to please you. You are my world. So many dogs will fall into separation anxiety because the center of their world is gone.
But you have to know that the key to your relationship is the “leader”, that is, when you let it think that it is the leader, it will no longer maintain such a relationship. And the dog’s instinct will make it constantly try and challenge high-level members, so actions such as guarding food and baring teeth will definitely occur, just like a man gets an erection when he sees a beautiful woman. So
what should be done? Beat him up? How to say it, beating is somewhat useful, but the key is that your overly emotional output makes it difficult for it to know why it was beaten up.
In other words, it will be afraid of you. It may not guard the food anymore, but it will tremble and tuck its tail when it sees you in the future. Is this what you want?
The key is to maintain the identity of “leader”. Many people often feed their dogs and the dogs can’t wait, so they eat or guard the food before you put it in. Many people acquiesce because they love their dog. You are just condoning its challenge to you. You
should stop it immediately. You can make a snorting sound and then use your five fingers to stab its neck. You should be strongly dissatisfied with its behavior, not it. (If your dog has been like this for a long time, you may be bitten.) My dad raised
many dogs when he was in the countryside. These dogs always provoked me, but never dared to provoke my dad. At first I thought he beat them too much, so whenever a dog provoked me, I really beat it up. But the effect was not obvious, it just barked when it was far away.
Later I observed my dad and found that he never beat dogs. But for example, when feeding or going out, as long as a dog dared to act on its own, he would immediately use a strong tone and stab the dog with his hand. (It doesn’t hurt much actually) None of these dogs dared to provoke him, and their tails would shake like a fan from a distance.
Another key is self-confidence. You have to know that you are its leader. Many girls like to raise big dogs to protect themselves. However, due to some fear and strength factors, it is difficult to control itself whether eating or going out.
Sometimes, for example, when walking the dog at night and meeting a stranger, the girl may be very nervous, so she subconsciously tightens the rope. You must know that if you are nervous, the dog will be very nervous.
In this case, it does not recognize your leadership status. Now it seems to be in danger again, and you can’t give any instructions. Then it can only follow its own instructions and it is also very nervous. So it starts barking at passers-by and even bites them directly.
So when raising a dog, you must remember that you are its “leader”. This relationship is the only relationship between you and it can understand. As for other “family members” and “subordinates”, they are all projected by you to it.
It’s not impossible! Of course you can, but you have to allow it not to understand. And remember that you must maintain your “leader” status, which is the basis of everything.
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