Speaking of this border shepherd girl who came to my house, after the experience of “extreme jumping off a building”, it was basically a recovery period of careful care. I didn’t force her to do any training. One is that I don’t like forcing her to do things that I don’t like, and the other is that I think the habit of living and communicating at ordinary times can also change her subtly, so I basically “keep her free”.
First of all, some people say that they want to have a dog, but the thought of walking is very troublesome. For those friends who don’t take good care of a non-human family member and don’t have enough patience and perseverance, I want to say “caution”. There is a small animal at home, which is really fun, but she is also like human beings, with emotions and needs care! If you don’t have enough time to stay with them for a long time, then I hope you must spend more time with them when you have time, because of themselves, dogs will really be “depressed”! If you are an office worker like me, you should take a walk at least twice a day, get up early in the morning, take her out for a walk, and deal with the problem of defecation by the way (remember to clean it up, so as not to affect others). At the same time, satisfy their curiosity today, and then take them out for a walk when you come back from work. Even if you are tired from work, after all, one day, they may not be able to urinate, just waiting for you to take them back. !
Let’s go back and talk about me and black beans, after the first narrow escape (why the first time, because there are two more! ), I spent the first Spring Festival when we met in peace of mind. As the old saying goes, “an ugly daughter-in-law always wants to see her in-laws”, I decided to take her back to my home and meet my parents! I didn’t know how to tell my parents when I first picked her up. First, I was afraid that my parents would object and think that I was not suitable for raising. In another case, I was afraid that my parents would not be willing to give up if I found a master. And at that time, I wasn’t sure whether I could keep such a big guy well or not, so I never told them that my parents didn’t know that I had a dog! ~~
On the 29th of the twelfth lunar month, when I finished packing, I pulled the black beans and went back to my door. When I was outside, I decided to talk to her first. I told her: I’ll knock at the door for a while, I’ll go in first, you wait behind the door, I’ll let you in, you’ll go in, she looked at me, and then she stepped back two times and squatted down. Originally, Hachi’s big mouth was opened and closed, and it has been going on. . . I brought a friend ~ “My mother’s expression was first stupefied, and then she winked and quietly asked me if she brought her girlfriend back. Then I quickly explained that it was not, but it was. . . Then I opened the door a little wider, shook my head with the black bean, and signaled that she could come in. She actually understood what I meant. ~ ~ She probably felt a little restrained because of a stranger and a strange home. Then she lowered her head and put her head in, pretending to be shy, and looked at my mother. When she saw a dog! Then I saw that we were in a state, with our heads in the house and our bodies outside. My mother smiled, and then she quickly called my father to have a look. Black beans scanned the two strangers in front of us. Seeing that I entered the door, she quickly followed me in, right next to my leg, and didn’t dare to go near my parents. I like dogs, and my parents raised me. “Dogs are smart, human and sensible, and they can feel it if you don’t harm them.” Naturally, they like it very much. Black beans saw that they like her, and then they swaggered into the house!
After that, there was a series of touching, selling cute, pleasing, and a series of operations, which made it look like I was familiar with my mother. My mother was also happy when she touched it, saying that black beans were beautiful. Basically, she was around my mother all night, and my parents accepted it. Suddenly, she had a family member, and she was very happy! My dad is more concerned about dog hair (my aunt told me when I was very young that my dad loves to be clean, wiping the floor several times a day ~ ~), occasionally talking about topics such as hair loss, and then black beans can keep a good interaction distance with my dad at night, and definitely not rubbing on his body or legs! With her IQ, she can definitely understand from what you say what others hate and what others worry about, and whether she can do it herself! My mother heard that Bian Mu was clever a long time ago and asked me if I bought it. I said that I would buy it since I was a child. How can I buy such a big one? After hearing about her experience of jumping off a building, she even frankly said to Black Bean: They are Mom and Dad, and I am her brother ~ ~ ~ (Well, I have been on an equal footing with Black Bean in these years ~) We didn’t go home at night, and basically spent the whole year at home.
In this way, Black Bean knows that there are two families, and it feels like two homes by default. Occasionally, because of my busy work, I often send Black Bean home to play with my parents for two days. At first, she basically won’t stay at my parents’ house. At night, as long as I wear clothes, she must go with me, because she is not used to it, and she is also unfamiliar with my parents. What degree can the hearing of the border shepherd be? For example, when my family was having dinner at night, she was listening when I told my parents whether to take her. When it was confirmed that she was leaving, she would always be at the door, waiting for me to put on my clothes and shoes. When I brought a dog leash (I bought a strap dog leash and a collar around my neck, I was afraid she would be too tired ~), I just spread the strap flat, and she could step into the empty space by herself, so I could just buckle it. The result will become: she was still there when she said it. After that, she has quietly returned to my parents’ bedroom mat, a pair: I’m sleepy, don’t call me, I’m not leaving! After that, as long as she comes to my parents’ house, her first choice is to follow my mother, and my mother will occasionally give her a back door in the kitchen.
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